I’ve had to learn this lesson the hard way.
If it’s one thing that pains me, it’s confiding in someone about a painful experience, then having them use that info to continually make you feel like you did something wrong and you’re such an unworthy person, in the most condescending, subliminal manner.
You know what I mean. You’re no longer just you. You’ve become type-cast as “that type of person.” Really? Is that what you chose to see and believe?